The way my car has showed me dust this year has left me thinking that maybe i will be the handy person in my future household. i have found myself researching and buying car parts and going through youtube university to try and fix the issues. I have also forced to learn about different car sounds . Most of the times when am doing this i feel inadequate as a woman. Like i have failed to master the art of womanhood because other ladies seem fortunate enough to have the male figures in their lives doing these dirty jobs for them.
At this rate and with the experience i have been forced to acquire i might find myself as the future mechanic in my household. I will come home and find my future hubby complaining about his car making some noise and i will be like baby give me the keys and i will go check it out for you. Or he will call me frustrated on the highway with a flat tire and i will find myself saying i will be right there to change your tyre.
At this point i hope that he wont feel less of a man cause his girl is doing all these. Instead i hope he will close his eyes and thank his provider and his ancestors for giving him a girl that can do both.
Soldier Gal 